The correct dosage/strength is 50%, so add equal amounts of water and anti-freeze. Mix BEFORE adding.
You can use any anti freeze so long as it has the corrosion inhibitor and is suitable for an alloy engine. Almost all are nowadays, but ask in store, or at the motor factors.
TRY not to mix makes and DO NOT mix types.
As for de-ionised water.......once the anti-freeze is in, any corrosive tendencies of tapwater are gone. That's the job of the "corrosion inhibitor".
And UNLESS you can clean out EVERY drop of the previous coolant, you already have FAR MORE "pollutants" in your system than will come in with tapwater.
Sorry, but unless you are starting from scratch with a BRAND NEW engine, I'm afraid that DI water is a modern myth for cooling systems......and maybe not even much better in a brand spanker.