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Old 15 June 2005, 10:26   #1
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Default Question for the laydeez.............2nd dates

I have a 2nd date with a girl tonight who Im really keen on, thing is Im never sure exactly what girls are looking for from a second date? Is it totally down to me to make the moves or not? Its a bit tricky as I work with her, but I really want to see her again and dont want to make a mess of it.
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Old 15 June 2005, 10:27   #2
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ahh good question. I would say the making of moves depends on the situation/where you are gonna be.

are we talking nightclub/cinema, etc ??
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Old 15 June 2005, 10:50   #3
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Just behave like you did on the first date, she obviously likes you or she wouldnt go out again. Whatever happens, will happen naturally you'll see. Dont force the issue or she will run a mile. Laydeez like to be treated as laydeez, its as simple as that HTH
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Old 15 June 2005, 10:50   #4
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Some of the questions on here beggar belief. ( or did you just want to tell the world you have a date? )

If you don't feel its right, dont. If you do, do.
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Old 15 June 2005, 10:51   #5
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Just behave like you did on the first date, she obviously likes you or she wouldnt go out again. Whatever happens, will happen naturally you'll see. Dont force the issue or she will run a mile. Laydeez like to be treated as laydeez, its as simple as that HTH

i thought laydeez wanted to be treated like bitches, that why they always run to the ones who slap em about
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Old 15 June 2005, 10:55   #6
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Just enjoy yourself. At the end of the date, if she invites you in on a school night then chocks away.

If not, then the 3rd date / weekend combo should see you through
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Old 15 June 2005, 11:35   #7
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i thought laydeez wanted to be treated like bitches, that why they always run to the ones who slap em about
Ooh, not this one matey, it would be the last thing he ever did
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Old 15 June 2005, 11:42   #8
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Ooh, not this one matey, it would be the last thing he ever did
well at least there are still some normal ones about then, i was starting to lose faith!
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Old 15 June 2005, 12:27   #9
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Go with the flow, hopefully you will have a nice evening together.

Don't get drunk.

If things are going well then make a move, but don't go too far or she will think that all you want her for is s*x.

Take her a small gift too (you only need to spend a few pounds), us girlies love it.
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i thought laydeez wanted to be treated like bitches, that why they always run to the ones who slap em about
so very very true, as we all well know (john d)
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PMSL, some sound advice here chaps
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2nd date and you've not got anywhere?

You sure it's the ladies you really like
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the disappearing posts have struck again
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Take her a small gift too (you only need to spend a few pounds), us girlies love it.
What, like a Star Wars action figure?

Why gifts, all us blokes want is immaterial, free love
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the disappearing posts have struck again

yes they have havent they! i wouldnt have noticed, would have just figured i was going mad!
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What, like a Star Wars action figure?
If she likes the films then why not.
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2nd date and you've not got anywhere?

You sure it's the ladies you really like
FPMSL
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the disappearing posts have struck again


I thought my suggestion was valid......depending on the sort of girl in question

but hey- maybe whoever removed it didnt get any last night
Get a sense of humour ffs
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If she likes the films then why not.
You could take her chewbacca and then say it is like you because he likes to have hair all round his face and has got a big weapon.

Talk her into bed 1970's style. Live the dream.
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how do you do that then?
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What ever you do dont drink too much!!!! you might get a Lazy L*b!!!
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Take her a small gift too (you only need to spend a few pounds), us girlies love it.
Agreed, a pack of 3 should do the trick for a 2nd date.
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and if your extra kind offer her a choice of flavours
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and if your extra kind offer her a choice of flavours
That's a little too one sided, after all us blokes only ever get the choice of 1 flavour.
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That's a little too one sided, after all us blokes only ever get the choice of 1 flavour.
Tuna?
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Old 15 June 2005, 17:07   #26
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I have a 2nd date with a girl tonight who Im really keen on, thing is Im never sure exactly what girls are looking for from a second date? Is it totally down to me to make the moves or not? Its a bit tricky as I work with her, but I really want to see her again and dont want to make a mess of it.
Just take it easy and be yourelf.No point pretending or,it falls apart later anyway.So if she wants to see you again,great.If not,put it down to experience.Dont wreck your brain on whats gonna happin or how you should behave etc.She must have liked you or,she or wouldnt have wanted second date.
Enjoy it!
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Old 15 June 2005, 18:37   #28
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She must have liked you or,she or wouldnt have wanted second date.


prob right, though i do have a lot of female friends that go on dates with guys 'for something to do'

i'm pretty sh1te with women i fancy, normally end up dating my female friends as they see what i'm actually like!

one thing i have picked up on is that women hate it when you drop hints about how much dosh you have or how big your house is etc...

prob less relevant if you work with her as shes likely to know your earnings...

got my own women issues at the mo, but i havent got the energy to got into it! plus its your thread!
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